Parent Won't Pay for Child's Tuition

How does a two year old get extreme anxiety?

I don't think I am going to comment. I think I will just sit silently by, ROFLMAO.

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Quoting cyjeff

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How does a two year old get extreme anxiety?

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It is possible but I doubt that is what is happening here. (Generally, at two, the child must have suffered some traumatic event or have a neurological disorder to manifest extreme anxiety.)

What I see is a mom who isn't happy sharing her mutual child with dad. How come going on visitations with his father cause extreme anxiety but going to school with strangers does not?

OP consistently references "they" in her post (they pay child support, they have visitation). Who is they? Unless this is some unusual surrogacy situation, only DAD pays child support and only DAD has visitation.

It sounds like OP tried to get her child into a state funded at-risk preschool. Those schools are limited in the number of children they can accept and generally they have a points cut-off (points are given for any disability or delay of the child, foster care status, or certain risk factors present in the parent (teen mother, disabled mother, ESL)). OP's child didn't score high enough to be considered at-risk under the school's current levels.

OP, if dad is using his visitation every week, I would be surprised if he agrees to allow you to relocate. When the court looks at your petition, they will be considering a large number of factors -- including which parent is likely to foster a relationship with the NCP. Since your stated purpose for the move is to limit the amount of time the child is away from you, that will not go well for you.

To your orginal question, since the public school determined that your child does not need preschool, your desire to place the child in preschool is not likely to sway the court. In fact, it would be considered day care and dad could ask for rofr and end up with more time with the child.