Placed on Abuse Registry Because I Spanked My Son

i spanked me and my ex wifes son after a school conference she dropped me of and went home she lives behind her father my son told his granfather i spanked him cause he was bad and mean to his teachers and his mom they took theyre own pictures with digital camera and called a deputy to take pictures within the time of dropping me off and several hours later when my ex called me to tell me what had happened all that was in the pictures was a red bottom right after the spanking he sat in in car seat and went to sleep me and my ex talked a lil til i was dropped off got home twenty mins later he was spanked twenty mins before i was dropped offf my son is biracial very light skinned his mother is red haired and freckled face ther was no examination only pictures and report from the mother and grandfather

That's a tough situation; I am sure they are against you given the way you may present yourself to them and your history.

Would you consider going back to school and getting a proper education so you can write better to make yourself more employable. The army was a great start; were you honorably discharged ? The services were the first place I went for discipline and got off to a career start after 4 years of service. But that was in in the 80's and the most we did was bomb Libya once then. Any possibility for the National Guard ?

I can sense right away you've lived in some tough areas and have already have had a tough life.

The bottom line is, what is done is done and its not really undo-able.

I would want someone better educated and more presentable and with less of life's issues to take care of our ailing elderly population. An patient has to place utmost trust in his or her caregiver.

You seem young; and if drugs are out of your life, you can turn things around with a long term goal.

drugs? i don't do drugs i got my GED im well educated just typing fast i went to college for my cna passed good honorably discharged and got an 80 on my asvab for the army do i seem so ignorant buy my situation or where i live what is it me being judged off my situation? alcohol is a drug but ive been been prescribed more by doctors than ive ever drank in drug comparison i have had a hard life cause i had my first child at 16 and was in the streets that was ten years ago my only true problems are manic depression and add

my last patient was a 14 yo with cerebral palsy both of his parent father a contractor and mother a rn thought i did the job perfectly also my mother aunt mother in law and grandmother in law are nurses sorry if i seem less educated and unpresentable to you

That's fine.

Yes, the way you type and multiple posts to the forum makes it appear you are super stressed and not thinking clearly.

Get this behind you and find some other work then. You should still qualify for other health care and hospital work to keep your foot in the health care door. Many have had to do it; and being free of drugs makes you a step ahead of many people in this country.

You will just have to work harder than the next guy to get back to where you want to be. If you keep yourself healthy and think long term in a positive manner, you should get there.