Get Rid of Him

I have a father that I don't want to see anymore. My sister and I have found drugs at his house. He doesn't have a stable home and he uses all these girls to get money and a place to live. He threatends to take me from my mother who I am currently living with. He has told me that he shouldn't let me go home and if we ever went to court he would get in my face about everything. I am scared that he will take me from my mother. He gets me in the summer and I don't want to go with him. I don't know what to do to get away from him and get him to leave me alone. I have talked to him about how I don't like him and he doesn't understand. All he does is call me a wimp. I can't take living in fear that he might come get me or kidnap me like he did when I was a baby. I don't know how to get my rights not to see him. I live in Pennsylvania and he now lives in Washington. What can I do to get these rights? If you have any help you can give me please let me know, thanks.

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Quoting babycakeJR

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I have a father that I don't want to see anymore. My sister and I have found drugs at his house. He doesn't have a stable home and he uses all these girls to get money and a place to live. He threatends to take me from my mother who I am currently living with. He has told me that he shouldn't let me go home and if we ever went to court he would get in my face about everything. I am scared that he will take me from my mother. He gets me in the summer and I don't want to go with him. I don't know what to do to get away from him and get him to leave me alone. I have talked to him about how I don't like him and he doesn't understand. All he does is call me a wimp. I can't take living in fear that he might come get me or kidnap me like he did when I was a baby. I don't know how to get my rights not to see him. I live in Pennsylvania and he now lives in Washington. What can I do to get these rights? If you have any help you can give me please let me know, thanks.

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If there is a court order for visitation neither you nor your Mother have any choice- the order says you visit, then you'll visit unless your Mother goes to court to get the order modified. If your mother allows you to not go, then she risks being held in contempt of court.

According to your other posts, you are only 13 and you also wish to change your last name.
As a 13 yr old minor, YOU do not have any rights to cahnge anything, your Mother does though, so maybe she should get a consult with a local attorney to see what her options are.