Re: Im 16 and Hes 25 Need
And you got the law. Yes. Until or unless your Dad's rights as a parent are stripped by the court, he has every right to say that you are not allowed to see someone that he doesn't want you to see.
And the days when girls were marrying at 14 were really quite a long time ago. At a time when the overall life expectancy was about 30.
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And you got the law. Yes. Until or unless your Dad's rights as a parent are stripped by the court, he has every right to say that you are not allowed to see someone that he doesn't want you to see.
And the days when girls were marrying at 14 were really quite a long time ago. At a time when the overall life expectancy was about 30.
Well yes...there IS that.... ;)
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Unca Jeffy has had to get involved a lot lately...
Princess, there is only one reason that a 25 year old man wants to date a child... so that he can mold you into the "woman" he wants you to be. Sex is part of that, but only part.
No, you say, your relationship is different. We don't know you, you say...
Tell ya what... I will bet you $1,000 towards your college education that he has used at least half of these phrases in the last year...
"You are so mature for your age."
"Women my age just don't understand me."
"You understand me so much better than women my age."
"Age is just a number."
"Romeo and Juliet were only 14 years old."
"Fifty years ago, this age difference wouldn't have mattered at all."
"Your parents are divorced. They don't understand a true love like ours. All they see are our ages."
"We won't have sex until you are ready. But when you are ready, so am I."
"I want to be with you my whole life... and I want that life to start right now."
Before you come back on here and tell us how little we know, ask your Mr. Wonderful the ages of his last three girlfriends... and his age at the time.
What you will find is a pattern.... once he found an age that his lines worked on, he stayed dating that age. I am guessing around 15 or 16.
Don't believe me? Ask HIM.
*applause*
Anyone willing to wager kiddo is back in a couple of years asking how she can have her bf's parental rights terminated?
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Unca Jeffy has had to get involved a lot lately...
Princess, there is only one reason that a 25 year old man wants to date a child... so that he can mold you into the "woman" he wants you to be. Sex is part of that, but only part.
No, you say, your relationship is different. We don't know you, you say...
Tell ya what... I will bet you $1,000 towards your college education that he has used at least half of these phrases in the last year...
"You are so mature for your age."
"Women my age just don't understand me."
"You understand me so much better than women my age."
"Age is just a number."
"Romeo and Juliet were only 14 years old."
"Fifty years ago, this age difference wouldn't have mattered at all."
"Your parents are divorced. They don't understand a true love like ours. All they see are our ages."
"We won't have sex until you are ready. But when you are ready, so am I."
"I want to be with you my whole life... and I want that life to start right now."
Before you come back on here and tell us how little we know, ask your Mr. Wonderful the ages of his last three girlfriends... and his age at the time.
What you will find is a pattern.... once he found an age that his lines worked on, he stayed dating that age. I am guessing around 15 or 16.
Don't believe me? Ask HIM.
This is akin to you dating a seven year old child. How much would you two have to talk about? What interests would you have in common?
I assure you that there is just as much change between 7 and 16 and 16 and 25. Yeah, I know... you really think you are getting close to maturity... but I can tell you that you are not nearly as close as you think.
OK i agree, but molding can be good or bad... because lets see he don't do drugs or anything that can harm my life in that way. He never asked or forced me to do anything I didn't want to. and if anything he has help me in school when others wouldn't.
And i'm the first girl he has ever dated this young.. i know all his other GF's other then the ones he had in high school, but all of them are around his age no lower then 22.
Re: Im 16 and Hes 25 Need
You mean that's what he TOLD you.
Re: Im 16 and Hes 25 Need
If the question is, "Can my dad say I can't date an adult until I turn 18", the answer is "Yes."
If the question is really about all the things you say he doesn't want you to do, then read this.
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OK i agree, but molding can be good or bad... because lets see he don't do drugs or anything that can harm my life in that way. He never asked or forced me to do anything I didn't want to. and if anything he has help me in school when others wouldn't.
And right there... that gives every adult on this board pause. Molding is always bad when it comes from an adult with a romantic interest in you... and the moment you believe that you need to look to someone other than your parents for guidance, you have chosen a path that shows just how unready you are for this relationship.
Your father's rule is law.... your law. As Aaron pointed out, you lose.
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You mean that's what he TOLD you.
Now i'm starting to question how mature you really are? sounds like your a little one sided to everything...
are you married or did that end? and if it did i wonder why..... :confused:
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Now i'm starting to question how mature you really are? sounds like your a little one sided to everything...
are you married or did that end? and if it did i wonder why..... :confused:
Ah... so now you believe if we don't all want to join hands with you and celebrate your emotional rape by an adult predator (which is exactly how the law will see him), we, somehow, don't understand how love works.
do you have any idea of the odds of your relationship making it 6 more months? if you have sex, your relationship will fall apart within, statistically speaking, 2 weeks.
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Now i'm starting to question how mature you really are? sounds like your a little one sided to everything...
are you married or did that end? and if it did i wonder why..... :confused:
She'll learn. The hard way, probably.