My question involves adoption law for the State of: OREGON
my x wife wants me to let her current husband adopt my kids, they are between the ages of 10 and 14. My son and daughter. i told her that i would consider it if it were possible to still have a parenting plan/schedule agreed upon where I could still see them basically the same as I do now.
does anyone know if this is possible?
she tells me that visitation will be EASIER with no parenting plan...?! But even with our current parenting plan she still puts up interference, so at this point I'm not trusting her at all. She says it will just be between the kids and I if and when they want to come over, but I do not have an amicable relationship with my x, nor her husband. he has cursed at me in front of my kids before. So basically there is no way I would agree to an adoption if I cannot get a black and white parenting time agreement.
Any thoughts, suggestions, and direct answers are very appreciated. Thanks!