Re: I Have a Child with a Married Woman
Just the opposite. What you should do is sue the mother for paternity. No court in their right mind is going to grant a step parent adoption to a newly married couple, however, you do have the right to assert paternity and force the issue that way.
At this point he can, because he's the legal father of the child.
So if the mother and I (biological father) want to live together with the child, can the legal father seek custody of the child?
Does he need to continue to live in San Diego in order to get the custody?
Then he moves, however, CA will continue to have jurisdiction over the child.
What happens if he plans to move to another state?
She's not your daughter. She's your girlfriend's child.
My daughther has a great relationship with me.
On a personal note, you should seriously consider the type of woman you are getting yourself involved with. She's not the most upstanding of individuals...
She likes me a lot (even thou she doesn' know that I am her father). I would say that her relationship is me is better than what she has with her legal father.
If you wanted babies all to yourself, you should have created them by yourself. Until you do that, children have the right to BOTH parents, especially since you found them suitable to procreate with.