My boyfriend and I have been dating since September 2005 and I love him very much and he loves me very much. I was worried that he wanted to go out with me to get a green card, but he is a wonderful person just like all the other people on here say the same about the ones they love.
My question is should we get married. I don't like sneaking around because he's illegal and I want to get married like anyone else, a church with my family and his family, but being illegal doesn't make that possible.
We are planning on going to get married this Friday by the court and then he is applying for his work permit and other papers (i.e. social security card) through someone. He wants to get a better job. He has a college degree and feels bad when we are short on money. He wants to be able to help more with the finances, etc.
By the way. there is a website that is really good...it's probably the best on immigration law...google "Siskind Susser Law Firm".
Should we really get married? I feel nervous about the consequences.