My question involves child support in the State of: NC
I have 2 kids..when the father of the kids and I split up I told him out of being nice and thinkin he would be more responsable when it came to his kids, well he agreed to pay $200 a month for day care and according to him when he has them he has full responsability of diapers, pull ups etc...well it started out as me sendin my diapers for the days he had them finally I realized that wasnt smart so I told him I was stopping ,next he doesnt give me ANYTHING when they go to the Dr. when they have medicine, I will ask for half and he never gives it to me, he has gave me $ for a prescription ONE TIME and it wasnt even enough to fill the 50$ prescription....what really did it are the following two scenarios...
1: daughter seems to have some horrible rash with puss on her head during the weekend, on monday when he has them i told him to please take her to the Dr (i pay the insurance) he asked me to GIVE HIM THE MONEY FOR THE COPAY, I agreed to give him half..he never showed up to pick her up for her appointment...for the next 2 days he had them he said he would take them and told me he overslept every single day and couldnt take her and that i could have took her when i had her (how?? it was weekend) so I end up takin her and because I didnt have the money (single mom 2 kids) my sister had to buy BOTH prescriptions
2. Daycare lady calls and says daughter needs pull ups so i tell him because he has them today and he tells me why are you tellin me? dont you take her the pull ups...( even when he has them i take care of the necessities at day care) i told him well copay and medicine were such such how much did u give me..and he said...idc blah blah.
HE DOESNT HAVE A JOB, LIVES WITH MOM....so HE DOESNT NEED TO HAVE ANYTHING WHEN HE HAS THEM BECAUSE HER HOUSE IS STOCKED WITH FOOD and MILK .....(idk how he pays the 200)
what should i do? take him out for child support..? tell him to stop paying the 200$ or what?
my kids have nice things and sometimes may seem like alot but only because my mother and sister help me with soo much...