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Oh no... not at all. When I was a student I took out the maximum soley for the purpose of 1) keeping it in case I needed it. My job is temporary. I was pregnant and whenI don't work I don't get paid. 2) since the interest rates were so low I figured I could save it and then hopefully accrue higher interest to pay towards the loans later. If that makes sense.
Our joint account has our paychecks etc. He was $25,000 in debt and is making monthly payments on the 1st credit card, we settled the 2nd credit card which then took all of the money we had. And now we're trying to settle the 3rd credit card.
Quite frankly our marriage isn't good right now. Though part of me feels like I should use that money to help him, I am ultimately the one responsible for my student debt not him. If we separated I woudl be the sole person paying back the 40,000 not hiim. Even though I borrowed some of that money to help with household expenses while I was off work because of maternity leave etc.
no no no.. I am not trying to hide money etc. My husband doesn't necessarily know how much student loans I have left. In part if he did he woudl probably try and spend it. He is HORRIBLE with Money. Shoot he only makes 25,000 and spent 25,000 in 6 months SOLELY ON HIMSELF. Hence the problem that we are in. In part I want him to learn his lesson. I always seem to bail him out and figure things out for him financially.
I did contact a lawyer and they said if citi does sue and they are awarded the money, which they deserve since he did charge it, they would put a lien on our house, which my name is on. THe lawyer said that it would likely affect my credit as well. Which I don't want to happen. It's bad enough my husband put our familiy in this mess.
Again, i'm not trying to hide money, i just don't want my student loan money to be used to pay his debt, when I am responsible for the student loan and my husband isn't. If our marriage fails, 1) i would need this money to help with finances, 2) or I could use it as a cushion to pay off my student loans.
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