Heres my problem. I have a horrible family. There is only my daughter who I want to receive anything. I also do not under any reason want my son or sister to have a single penny or be allowed near my funeral. AT ALL!!! I have been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs and we do not plan to marry. The house is in my name only. i have spoken with my daughter and boyfriend and shared with them my wishes. My Daughter get my car, personal items. My boyfriend get my house, 401K, life insurance ect. since we have built our life around being together. What is it that I need to do to protect my wishes? My mother is also not allowed anything. My family has stolen enough from me in the past to make up for what they are supposed to have. And I can not stress how much it bothers me to think they will show up to the funeral.
Anyone have any advise that I can use. I live in California