please help me? i was married in 1990 and had one child with my wife. we separeted shortly after marriage. divorce was final in 1993. well she had 3 more kids to two different fathers but used my last name for the other three that are not mine. can she do this? here's my next problem, she began to recieve cash assistance after our daughter was born. she has gotten over 16,000.00 from welfare and i was made responcible to pay this all back. they never went after the other fathers. i called welfare and spoke to a supervisor and told him i only father one child, why am i paying all these arears back for a whole family? he said well they all have your last name and he told me we dont split up familys on cash. i told him also she has the one father living with her for over ten years ,and hes been in and out of jail for not paying support to another woman.why isnt welfare going after these other dads? what can i due? i feel im being frauded!!!! and i feel its because they have my last name! i feel welfare has gotten to much money fom me for only one child what can i do? shes constantly on and off cash assistance and my daughters 15. and i have paid faithfully for 15years and i have the proof, beacause they always take it from my paychecks.