Forcing Involvement

**kaykay81** · 02-15-2009, 11:09 PM

My question involves paternity law for the State of: il

i post a previous question that has not been answered..got one more. So if my ex bf "at home dna test" is correct. Is there anything i can do to force the biological father to get involved...if not emotionally at least financially? He is a maury type of guy with speculated children around the world...seem no women held him responsible for these kids....how can i hold him responsible?

**aardvarc** · 02-16-2009, 08:50 AM

You can't force emotional involvement or physical visitation - but you can take him to court for child support.

**CourtClerk** · 02-16-2009, 08:58 AM

He is a "maury type of guy" and you seem like the female version of the like. Let's not throw stones when you have the wrong man listed on your child's birth certificate young lady (and I use that term loosely).

**kaykay81** · 02-16-2009, 09:10 AM

you know I didnt ask to be judged on here. I came for advice on how to handle my situation. You have your own sins so i would not be casting stones when you do not know the history behind my situation. As far as I know my ex bf could have tampered with this "at home dna test". I am trying to figure out for my childs sake what to do so that she does not lose more then she already has! All i wanted to know is if he went in before the 60 days and revoked the acknowledge of paternity if it was that easy for him to walk away...no proof or anything? sorry i can see the test being trusted enough to change a childs certificate! If you cant be helpful person then dont bother replying to these!

**CourtClerk** · 02-16-2009, 09:12 AM

You were told in your previous thread what to do regarding the AOP. You have NO RIGHT to come on here calling anyone names when it seems as if you could possibly have those same names called at you. No where did you state that it wasn't even remotely possible that this name couldn't be the father of your child... so since you can't say that with 100% assurity, keep from calling him names and talking about HIS situation as if you aren't in the same situation yourself.

In other words, grow up.

**kaykay81** · 02-16-2009, 09:27 AM

I was not calling my ex any names. Again all i was asking is if i can make the other man responsible for my child due to no one else has ever made him responsible. I am a nice person who made one big error in her life. I dont go around sleeping with numerous people having children like this other man. And as far as I know my ex should not get off easily when he could have had the test tampered with since he did it himself and not with a third party. I am trying to be a responsible parent and find out what i can do for my child so that she does not pay for my mistakes. Yeah i am horrible for wanting her to have a father. Sorry i believe that both men, regardless of the situation , should not be able to just walk off with out thought of the child! I want my child to have the best, you are right and i am horrible.Trust i have been beating myself up every night about this and cry for my child. so dont you dare crucify me too. As of right now i am doing this on my own without help. A man should not be able to revoke the aop without solid proof. what if there was error in doing the test, then he damages the child as much as i have already! just trying to do whats right...get off ur pedestal!