I am considering enforcing a visitation agreement that was filed along with the divorce decree. My EX husband says that he is no longer a "father" and refuses to comply. I have been asking him patiently and without demanding. But, on previous occassions he has said that he doesn't have to do anything he doesn't want to do. Our visitation agreement is worded loosely but it does say "not less than two weekends per month". Can I ask for modification? I would like to see more definite language and a visitation schedule drawn up on a calendar. He refuses to commit to anything on any subject. Can the courts order him to comply?