My question involves criminal law for the state of: KY
My ex and I have been arguing via text messaging over silly stuff. In an email she said she didn't care and ask that I don't message her anymore. I replied saying I agreed and we left it at that. There has not been any contact since then. She is now trying to put a restraining order on me for harassment...but there is no harassment as she engaged in the arguments and never said to stop or that I was harassing her. Does she really have a case since there has been no threatening,violence or harassment? I have NEVR gone around her place nor have repeatedly text or call her everyday. It was one argument over textn and email agreeing to quit trying to be friends. Someone has now logged into an online account she has "myspace" and posted nasty comments about her. Now I'm getting blamed for that and they are trying to say defamation of character. I'm in the IT field so I know they would have to get some serious proof to prove it was me. Does she really have a case and how will this effect my employment since we work in the same building but different floors and different departments? Will I have to go to a hearing or will the law actually be reasonable and be say wow...this is pathetic on both our parts? What will she have to do to make this a legit case as sheriff called me saying stuff to me about paying the price for hacking but I'm wondering how they can do that without proof?? I have never been in trouble like this and my record only has a speeding ticket from like 7-8 years ago. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.