Pregnant teen wants to get out of the house

**mrsyany** · 01-02-2006, 09:22 PM

I'm the mother of a sixteen year old boy , he has a girl pregnant but her mother wants nothing to do with the baby or my son. The girl is 4 months but her mother doesn't want to give daughter medical treatment for the pregnancy. The mother don't want us to know about the pregnancy(which is to late). She has called us to tell us she is going to put a restraining order against us. My son and the girl really like each other. We would like to take responsabilities for the girl and the baby. There is alot of verbal abuse in that house. We took the girl to a doctor without the mother knowing anything and the doctor said that she is in a very risky situation because of high blood pressure. Is there anthing that we can do about this situation. I'm so desperate to find a a solution before is too late.

**aaron** · 01-02-2006, 11:19 PM

If she isn't getting appropriate medical treatment, perhaps she should contact protective services such that her mother will be compelled to provide access to adequate treatment.

**mrsyany** · 01-03-2006, 05:52 PM

I told her that was my only way of helping her to get help, but she is scared that her two little sister will be taken away and put in foster care.

**baby mama** · 12-16-2006, 04:51 PM

Im in the same situation exept Im the girl and I gave birth 6 weeks ago my mom moved to another town and left me and my younger sister here with my alcahalic uncle. I have to go to the bank to pay the bills it is very hard Im only 15 tell the girl Im with her even if I cant help in any way. Maby u should look in to marrige laws because if thay can get married without her permission it will emanciate her and maby she can get on title19 medical insurence it pays for almost all of the ob/gyn bills and the cost of the birth. I got help from my boyfriends parents thay brought me to the doctor visits and were there in the hospital after I gave birth.

panther10758 · 12-16-2006, 05:05 PM

Protective services is your best bet for unborn child. Now on your other topic this girls Mother can file a restrainning order to keep you and your son away. Reason would be statutory rape I would think.