Ok well since I have the whole adoption thing figured out here is another question.
Me and my ex husband have 3 children together. The youngest is a boy and he is 2 years old. Now my ex also has a stepson and a 2 yr old son with his current wife. To make a long story short he was cheating on me when I was preg with our 3rd.
Anyway to get back to the topic at hand ... he got all the kids Christmas day around 1 oclock and was supposed to have them until Jan 1st. Then after the 3rd day of having them he calls me about 8 oclock at night telling me that our 2 year old wants to come home. That the whole time all hes been doing is crying and that they can not handle him anymore.
But its always like this when he goes down there. If and when he does go down there. Half the time he doesnt even get the kids when hes supposed to and when he does most of the time he will get the 2 oldest and not get our 2 year old.
I think that has a lot to do with him having problems with him when hes down there. So what should I do? I mean I think he would be better off not going down there at all not until he gets older anyway. I just dont think that its doing him any good to be there when his fathers not there in the first place hes always at work and that leaves the new wife there with him and shes said millions of times that she can not handle taking care of 5 kids and that its not her place to be watching my kids when they are there in the first place.