I live in Utah and my ex wife lives in California and we share custody of our 5 year old daughter. My ex resides with her fiance and has been together with him for a couple of years. I just discovered from my daughter that she and my ex's fiance play a "face licking game" to gross each other out. He licks her cheeks, forehead, and ears and she licks him back. I am definitely not okay with someone using their tongue to "play games" with my daughter.
My question is, does this constitute child molestation? If it does, would I have to prove that he has lewd intentions (since he will obviously contest the claim saying it's only a game)?
Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!