My question involves restraining orders in the State of: NY My cousins husband (soon to be divorced) seems to think that we have a fling going on! he is a past mental health patient by the way. so i got charged with harrasment in the 2nd degree becasue he was threating my cousin and i told him to sit down or i was going to knock him out. two months after this happened was when i got arrested! Then he went to the town court and told the judge i made his son shoot my gun.... and then i got served with a restrainging order! He lied to the judge, those kids love me. the son even wrote a letter to the judge explained to him that i didnt make him or show him the gun and the judge denied to revoke this order. what do i do?