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Momabear
My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Virginia
My daughter's father and I have a new court order that begun in Feb. of this year. There are some a few extra orders in the order (he is just gettin unsupervised visits for the first time in 2 years) One part of the order says he cannot smoke anywhere near our daughter, when his girlfriend and he drop her off he is not smoking in the car but she is. I have addressed this with him and he says it's her car I can't do anything about it. To which I obviously replied then drive your own vehicle to the pick up and drop offs. He said the order on ly says he can't smoke around her. Since that is truly the case is there anything i can actually say about it?
The other is the GF is not allowed to be at the house between the hours of 9pm and 7am (the just recently bought a house together) but they also live in a gated community to which he has put my name and vehicle make and model with tag number on the do no allow to enter list. And from what I have been told by his mother who live down the stree from thenm is that she is there every over night visit our daughter has. Can I take him back to court for breaking the order?
I have Sole custody of her and he has spceific visistation of EOW, which he just started exercising this month (yes even though it was from Feb he was suppsed to start)
Also there are people in his family (his two sister-in-laws) that in the court order it says there ar eto have no contact with our daughter while she is in the care of her father, however when my daughter and I have been at the mall or at her soccer games both of these women show up and try to have contact with her right in front of me. Each time this has happened I have calmly but firmly told then that they need to stay clear of my daughter and me or I will file a restraining order, obviously this is not working and I hate doing this at her events or in public any suggestions.