Moving with Another Relative

[bking]

My question involves guardianship in the Province of: Ontario

I am a sixteen and I have a question about living swith another relative. My mother and I do not get along, more than average. I don't wish to get divorced from her or anything but we currently live with my nanny. My mother works and when shes not working she doesn't come home and is always staying over at random guys houses and is constantly dating a new guy and brining them home. I have a little sister (12) and when I confront my mother she sees. My mom and I don't talk alot and havn't except to fight for the last year a half since my dad left. My Nanny is kicking my mother out but I wish to stay with my Nanny. My mom and I don't create a healthy environment for my little sister to grow up in and i wan't to spare that for her. So my question is is there a way legally that I can live with my Nanny without my mom calling the cops or anything?

[LawResearcherMissy]

I don't wish to get divorced from her

I would like to take aside the US mainstream media and beat the ever-loving hell out of each and every one of them that ever talked about a child "divorcing" his or her parents.

You cannot divorce your mother. Divorce is the termination of a marriage. You are not married to your mother.

The word you're looking for is "emancipation".

That pet peeve out of the way, no you can't be emancipated.

You can't run off and live with your grandmother just because you're angry that your mother has a sex life, either.

You're stuck with your terrible, horrible, evil mother - who saw fit to give you a computer and internet connection with which to bitch about her to strangers - until you're 18, unless your mother consents to you living elsewhere and goes to court to make it legal.

You'd do well to learn to get along with your mother.

[bking]

There's a difference between my mother having a sex life and her sleeping with different guys every night and in front of my sister. And actually my mother doesnt have an internet connection or a computer, it's my grandmothers.

[LawResearcherMissy]

I doubt she has sex in front of your sister. If she is, a call to CPS is required, not you running off to live somewhere else.

(And you might want to not act as if your sister is a baby. She's 12, not 2. She knows what sex is.)

Your mother can sleep with whomever she wants. One of the perks of being an adult is that you make your own decisions, and you're not answerable to your know-it-all teenager.

Move out and support yourself all by your onesie when you're 18. Til then, find it within yourself to cope.