Mine don't say anything about sharing the decisions or anything like that. It says that I am the residential parent and legal custodian. It then goes into the visitation schedule. I will try to see what I can do tomorrow. I'm not sure if the people at the courthouse would know anything about this or not. They will scream and yell at my son especially if they found out he is the one who told me about the braces. My ex thinks he is a know it all about everything and the lawyers know nothing. The sm even tried to tell my how my custody works!! Like she's ever been through it or even at a single court hearing!