Re: CPS Definition of "Normal"
I was 10 when I learned to balance a check book. It wasn't my checking account, it was my mother's. That's neither here nor there, but there are ways to teach your children how to do those things without them having their own. Get blank balance books from the bank.
Having a driver license doesn't come anywhere NEAR neglect. I wouldn't be handing my teenagers driver licenses and a car either, and that's your right as a parent. If the case is closed, let it be.
If you wanted babies all to yourself, you should have created them by yourself. Until you do that, children have the right to BOTH parents, especially since you found them suitable to procreate with.