Florida Misdemeanor Domestic Violence
Hello, I really need to have an idea of what to expect when I go to court. I'm well aware that the Judge is the only one who will have the final say, but I really need honest opinions.
My question involves criminal law for the state of: Florida.
Ive never had trouble with the law besides a few tickets, but who hasn't? I know its best not to give details, so I'll just some everything up.
I got into an argument with my boyfriend and words were exchanged on both parts. He was 'egging' me on and i obviously became quite frustrated. I advised him it was best to leave but he refused. After a few moments i began getting his clothes together and he was in my face. I was so upset i put my hand on him and told him to get out, he then grabbed my hand and tried to move me away to leave but stupidly I kept pushing him. EVEN MORE STUPIDLY, I went outside and damaged his truck.
Needless to say im quite shocked i took it to that level. There was no need to, but we all have to admit that when you get that upset and when you have been biting your tongue for so long you are capable of messing up. I was the one who called the police. I recognized what I did was wrong and wanted to at least try to make it better. He didn't want to involve the police, and he was leaving. The police spoke to both heard both sides which were the exact truth and no one switched anything up. He did not and does not want to press charges because honestly, as the screen name reads, im not that type of person. I have allot of positive plans for the future and I would like the opportunity to make them happen.
Obviously i was arrested, and now have court in about a month. I'm very worried about what will happen, even though he has not pressed charges is it likely the state will? Like i said, Ive never had trouble with the law. Having this Domestic charge on my record is a huge concern. Ive spoken to my bondsman, one of the best out there, and he explained that the case will be dropped and I have nothing to worry about. I'm not so sure of that though. He told me that the State of Florida can not be bothered to pursue it if the 'victim' does not feel the need to. He advised me to have him file paperwork at the State Attorney's Office stating that he definitely has no plans of pressing charges and also to write a letter basically saying that this was greatly out of my character. This might look better on my part and I may not even have to go to court at all if i receive a letter stating so. He also told me to keep in mind that this would stay on my record for six months. When i heard this I felt so relieved. How likely is that? Does the Judge really take in consideration that I've never been in trouble before? Does he also take in consideration that he does not want to press charges? I'm in desperate need of some input and I would greatly appreciate it if I could get some responses.
Oh and also, the state attorney will receive my case within seven to ten days . I was told that he could not fill out paperwork until then. If accepted, I should receive a letter in the mail within ten to fifteen days stating that the case has been dropped. Problem is he has plans on going out of state within the next week and it isn't known when he will return. Should I even bother? I really want the state attorney to know before I'm seen in court. If he does leave prior to them receiving the case could he notarize it and submit it?
I apologize for the lengthy post, but I wanted to include the important bits...
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