I Dont Want Her Dad To See Her

[Auriella]

My question involves a child custody case from the State of: WA

My daughters dad is a dead beat and he stands her up how do i go about telling him no. He doesnt pay child support or have any concern for her. He neglects her when she is there. His name is on the birth records and its noterized. What do i do?AGriggs88@gmail.com

[panther10758]

You dont get to decide if he sees her or not the court does

[babyfat5]

1) take him to court and get a modification of the parenting plan, if he isn't beating her, starving her, or raping her you won't be able to totally cut him out.
2) call the bcse and have them take over the case they will get him for non payment of cs (contempt of court)
If you just stop letting him see her and you have a parenting plan your in violation of it you will be in contempt of court.
Remember cs and visits are two seperate issues...let child support inforcemnt deal with the money issue you deal with the visits in court.

[Xena]

My question involves a child custody case from the State of: WA

My daughters dad is a dead beat and he stands her up how do i go about telling him no. He doesnt pay child support or have any concern for her. He neglects her when she is there. His name is on the birth records and its noterized. What do i do?AGriggs88@gmail.com

Do you have a court order for CS and visitation?

If you have an order for CS and he is not paying, file for contempt.
If you do NOT have an order for CS, you should file for one, because he is legally not required to pay CS until a court orders it.

If you have an order for visitation, you MUST abide by that order. If you have proof of the problems, you can try filing to modify the order, but be prepared to accept the reality that a court will seldom stop all visitations without alot of proof that the child is being harmed.

If you do NOT have a court order for visitation, you can control the vists. Of course, ex will have the right to file in court for a visitation order, then you'd have to follow that, but until then you can control the visits.