My soon to be ex-wife and myself have been seperated for 10 months now and have reached an impasse. She is the person wanting the divorce and now is dragging her feet to finish the paperwork. We recieved one of those online divorce kits and have both filled out our respective sides. I think what is holding her back is the fact that she wants maintainence. She has a Masters degree and a preschool teaching job and I feel she does not need any extra money. We have three kids that we share custody of. I see them every other weekend. I have agreed to pay $1250 a month for support on my $4100 net income with $200 that i pay in insurance, but she wants more. The financial stuff is covered, like the house and all the shared belongings and debt. What can I do to push this along without getting a lawyer involved?