[rllaferney]

I had a long term relationship with a women who now has a child 16 months old. I have recently discovered (from her) there is a good possiblity that this child is mine. She is married but separated and was married at the time of conception.

I would like to know my rights. The women wants nothing from me. But I am considering seeking joint custody.

What are my rights and are there limitations with respect to time?

What are the Husbands rights in this situation. We all live in California

[Mr. Knowitall]

California law is more liberal with respect to paternity actions brought in relation to children born in wedlock than most states, but still appears to require: 1. That the spouses be estranged from each other at the time of conception; and 2. That the biological father have a subsequent relationship with the child.

Given that these matters can be tricky, particularly if the mother's spouse is identified on the birth certificate as the father, it is a good idea to work with a lawyer if you wish to bring a paternity action.