My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Oklahoma. My cousin has been paying child suport to his ex-girlfriend for his son. His child support is not court ordered. He has been doing it to help take care of his son. The kicker to it is that she will not let him see his son. She continues to treatin with a attorney and that she will take him for all the money she can and full custody. All my cousin wants is to see his son. She is confinded to a wheel chair and the baby (10 months old) has Downs Syndrome. We as a family are complety worried about his well being as she is a partier. She is in the process now of tring to put a restraining order on him because he refused to give her the support until he got to see his son. What should we do?