Just an update to let you know how this was all resolved. If this thread can help others in the same situation, then I'm glad to provide the following info:
1. Today I went in and filed for termination (something that "the person" I spoke with said was unnecessary).
2. They placed the account on hold effective today (again something I was told they could not do). Wage withholding will continue for the next few weeks, but will NOT be released to her.
3. Upon the termination date, the SDCU will refund to me any overpayments and release to her what is owed, if anything (you guessed it, another thing I was told over the phone will not happen).
4. The wage attachment with Partial Unemployment Comp was vacated (that was a no-brainer).
5. In the very end, should there be a finding that they released to her more than what she should have, they will provide me all the related information to be turned over to magistrate court.
The worker who handled this for me was extremely pleasant, had a smile on her face from the time I walked in 'til the time I left, and assured me that my petition was done 100% correct to wrap this up.
Hope this helps someone else, and thanks for your help as well.
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