My brother has 4 kids, the oldest he legally adopted and the younger 3 are his biologically.
He found out the day after their sons 3rd b-day (maybe 2 weeks ago) that his wife is having an affair. He wants to go to counseling, she "just wants to be happy." They own a house and possibly cars together. She's a masseuse who rents a room at a chiropractors office (she had the affair with the chiropractor) He works full time.
He is completely devastated. Any suggestions on things he should do, steps he should take?