[I lent a friend over $10,000 from my 401K, with the verbal promise of repayment in 2 - 3 weeks. This friend is a co-worker and it is now 8 weeks, and my paycheck was $0.00 I have the receipt for the check written to her, I gave her options on repayment in writing, and she will not answer or return my calls.
We are both valued employees at the company and I do not want this to interfere with our working relationship. Any advice at this noment would greatly be appreciated. I reside in Michigan.FONT="Georgia"][/FONT]