My lawyer in a custody case wrote a letter that me and my wife were both unaware of. The letter stated in nonspecific terms that we had an agreement. We infact disagreed with the proposal and our lawyer told us that we had the option to throw it out. We did this and contempt charges were filed. We then found out that this action would require our lawyer to have to quit because he would have to testify. We have since gotten a new lawyer. We have gotten a new lawyer but he says that there is a possibility that the agreement will be enforced. Can you be held in contempt on something that is not signed by a judge?