I have to comment on something I've noticed everyone do on this website at least once. I am equally guilty of it & I understand the thought process. However! After dealing with a Governmental system like Child Support services, it looks so ridiculous. I am referring to the following statement. . .
Extortion? Get real...this man left me with the possiblilty of VD which took 6 months to get the final results, is pretending to have back problems, and my children cry several nights a week. He has spent $28, ooo in one year on his affair. I am protecting my family's money and protecting my children's future, and you say its extortion?? I was loyal for 10 years, a great mother, and took great care of his business, and you tell me this is exgtortion?
Perhaps I should not do this, perhaps I should let him spend all the money and let me live in poverty, and this will free up several more thousand dollars to be used on adult escort services. Would that make you happier, Happy Trails?
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Here is something you may or may not know. If you don't know it, then I will inform you of it. It does not help you one iota to talk about how evil your ex is. Your ex-husband could have beheaded every dog, cat, bird & even gold fish in your neighborhood, raped 100 hookers, giving all of them AIDS, bulldozed every house on your block, beat you, cut your nose off & then left you for another woman or man, & Child Support services only wants to know the facts about your case. Where does your ex-husband work? Does he have the children? If so then how long? If not then are you the custodial parent? How much do you make? bla bla bla & more bla bla bla! The best way you can help yourself is by avoiding adding all the extras. CS does not care about your personal problems & never, absolutely NEVER EVER executes a child support case against your ex based on how much you hate your ex. You could run up & down every street in America, screaming that your ex does not show what he actually makes, & CS will only tell you that if you have proof of this, to bring that proof before a judge, & take steps from there. The sooner you accept that CS is more like a computer program that only computes facts, the sooner you will adjust & make the right moves. CS only acts human if you are socially skilled enough, to expose that side. If you are even lucky, you might only see a glimpse before they put that CS mask on again. . .