All acts take place in CA. Jurisdiction.......American national, Married Other Woman, and former Affair Partner of my Swedish national husband,.....conned and coerced my Husband under duress of exposing their affair...with false promisies for consideration for his donating sperm to the CA. sperm bank, where he signed away his parental rights. She falsified the sperm bank records that she was "single" , when she was legally married, but not living with her German husband, who resided back in Germany...when setting up that account as well as falsifing her history at Dr. offices.
She used a CA. fertility clinic to assist her conception....they told her that the sperm tested... as not viable for AI. (she claimed her sperm donor was her husband).... The OW (other woman) actively sought out the other Married man to have sex to "just" concieve her child....and that no one would ever know the difference ("method of conception" ) about his helping her with her baby project. She was 38, had a career and has a MBA...... she wanted nothing from him, (she claimed falsely) that he would not be liable, etc...otherwise there was the implied threat that she could use his sperm donation as further blackmail to expose their sordid past history to HIs Wife. He cooperated to save his marriage.
OW was technically legally married during conception and birth of her adulterine bastard child. At the hospitial she declared under penalty of perjury to be married to the father of the baby...(MY husband). putting my husband's name illegally on the BC. and records....There was no declaration of paternity by my H......Her husband found out about the child when it was 7 months old in 2001 from me.......He filed for divorce in Germany, not until July of 2003...his wife did not appear for the uncontested divorce.
Under a german decision , the court declared her husband not a father as his name was not on the birth certificate....which was an illegal falsified document presented as authentic. No other determination was made as to who was the father under improper jurisdictional setting. He sent foreign court papers to his wife in the US.....who has refused to this day to file those papers in a US court where she resides.......acting as though she didn't recognize the divorce decree ???
In 2004 and to date Her EX-H ? started sending his wife tens of thousands of $$$$ in support for her and the child, (without court orders to do so) encouraging her to not seek CS or involving the sperm donor as a legal father with custody , etc...because of his still marriage ? OW did not want "the evil wife" having involvement with her child in such a setting with past affair history , she claimed to EX-H???
She has not had a steady income-job since the birth of her child, claiming to have financial woes to date, in debt etc.
Other woman gave her son my husband's unique identifing name...against my husband's request not to do so..she also refused for 2 years after the birth of her child to not destroy the sperm @cryobank, claiming it was her property and threating other unwarrented children to further damage the sperm donor's marriage relatonship.......Because of her outrageous behavior and her unwillingness to destroy my H's sperm and for the fact that she would NOT prove paternity......I stayed married....forcing her to act first to prove How she got pregnant, whose DNA etc.
Lawyers said that the name on the birth certificate proves nothing. The statute of limitations passed after 2 years in CA. to disprove paternity, when all parties had the facts, yet my H was deemed to have No standing to challenge the Birth certificate ....as he is not a legal parent. ...and he does not wan't to "catch 22" raise a paternity hearing. He feels he showed his intent by their written agreement to only be a sperm donor , regardless of how concieved, and does not want a forced DNA test....when her Husband is the presumed father, still.
He has notified OW of his position thru lawyers. She has refused to prove paternity going on 7 years now...but still goes about listing him as a legal parent, falsifing school , medical records and applying to get a passport, claiming his abandonment of them. The US State dept was informed of all the facts from our side and they refused (Oct 2006) to allow a passport to be issued to the child until he is 18, if his so claimed mother refuses to correct the birth certificate....she in fact lied about her "maiden name" on the birth certificate, giving her married name as her maiden name....so she is not technically deemed to have the right to file for such documents......
She has done nothing to date.
I feel that because of her public declations.theis is slander to my family and a deliberate intention to cause extreme emotional distress to me.
What can I do .the office of vital records claim they have no power to force her to correct the BC.
What can I Do ...as her BC could be used to get false Social secruity claims...etc.....future attacks on our estate.