Ok, I am going to best and describe a situation that is very hard for me to comprehend as I do not have all the details.
10/11/07 - I went to use my partner cell phone because mine was dead and I needed to make a call. The phone number I was trying to call was busy and what I did was went to the call history to redial the phone number I was trying to call and discovered a girl name in whom I didn't know. I asked my partner who this girl was and was told oh it's just a friend from work. She took her phone back abruptly as if she was hiding something in which it raised my suspision(sp) I asked if i could see phone again my partner say no. Now being my name is on the cell acct I asked my partner one more time if i can see phone she declines I tell her well I am going to acces the call history online. There was many calls and text messages between early Sept up in till now to this girl. Many calls were in middle of night and I asked my partner why are you calling this girl so late and asked how old she was. My partner who is 28yrs old say we are just friends. I say what the hell do you have in common with a 17yr why the hell would you be speaking to her all hrs of the night and sneaking out to do so. Later that day I called the girl phone and asked why she was calling my partner so much. She said she needed someone to talk to - she claimed she had been going through some issues.
10/12/07 - Next day my partner goes to work. We talk and I find out my partner can not be within so many feet of this girl and there was an on the job investigation going on. I say investigation for what??? I guess the 17 yr old mother had placed a complaint on my partner. i asked what the complaint was her mother placed my partner was vague in telling me. She just said her mom was crazy. Later that night I was talking to a mutal friend i explained what was going on and our friend she you know whats really strange is my partner had came to her two weeks ago saying "there's a girl at her job that likes her and her mother is threating to stalk her" I found that to be very strange. Confronted my partner with what I had just discovered and she said again we are just friends. I asked my partner when this investigation was to take place she said tomorrow. My partner had to write up a statement of her side of what happened.
10/13/07 - They have investigation with area manager - my partner never spoke to anyone directly. From my understanding it was the 17yr who spoke to people from HR.
10/14/07 - The 17yr calls my phone and ask for my partner. I had phone but put it on speaker phone. Because nobody was giving me the truth. My partner gets on phone and 17 yr says are "you mad at me" my partner says I can't speak to you and she was instructed to do so through her supervisor. My partner hangs up and calls the job back to get supervisors phone # the 17yr girl answers - again phone is on speaker. The girl proceeds to say she said nothing to the HR people she would never "throw her in front a bus" and i take that as well i am not going to throw you in type thing. As the conversation progressed the 17yr said "honey we did nothing wrong we just kissed once" At that point I took over the call. I asked her who approached who she said my partner approached her. I asked this kiss was it a peck or romantic kiss - she got sarcastic and said what do you think - she also says someone walked in on them and called her mom - that is where the complaint started from. My partner in backround is dening the kiss took place. I hung up on girl and asked my partner what the hell is going on we had been together for 7yr and i deserve the truth. She tells me she was sitting in breakroom and the 17yr girl comes in and kisses her and that she was also touching her inapproaiately. I said why didn't you go to someone with this - she didnt respond. My partner is a manager and you would of thought she would have filled out a report right on the spot and wrote the girl up. I found that to be strange as well as them contining to talk after the "kiss" took place back in mid Sept.
I asked my partner in statement she wrote up did she mention the kiss and she said no. I said if you turly did nothing wrong why did you omit that. That seems to be very critical information being this involves a minor. Basically both my partner and the 17yr lied to HR about what really happened and making it out that the mom is blowing things out of proportion.
Now I am faced with dilemema knowing what I do know am I bound by any laws to come forth with information I know? I mean i am 36 yrs old and to me that is WRONG to have that sort of contact with a minor. I can truly understand where this girl mom would have concern and would file a report - its not normal for a 17 yr and 28 yr to be kissing (who else knows if there is more to story i dont know) or even be talking on phone as much as they did. I mean I would have called the police if that was my daughter but thats just me.
Any input suggestions on what I should do - or do I just let it be?

