My ex husband and I filed in january, our 6 month waiting period was up in august, and neither one of us has any representation. last court date we were all set for final judgement, except he didn't have the single paper from the friend of the court that the court needed. so, the judge rescheduled (for the third time). In the meantime he (the plaintiff) moved to Missouri due to a job he had accepted. Since he was not at the rescheduled hearing, and he is the plaintiff, the judge would not finalize the divorce. But the judge did tell me that I needed to file a counter claim and that we could proceed this way. I, unfortunately can not, in any way, afford to pay for an attorney, and I have custody of our child. I can not find any information on how to proceed with filing a counter claim. I just want this to be over with so I can move on with my life!! Please help!!