I have decided that my marriage is no longer worth trying to keep together. Rather than continue the hardships of a relationship with a man I don't love anymore I think I want to make a better life for myself without him. Is it neccessary to inform him of my plans or simply file and have him served?
Also I have always worked but it's a low paying dead end job and financially I can't live on the wages I make. We have been married for 18 years and I want to know would it be possible to get spousal support until I finish college or trade school and find a better paying job?