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cbg
You posted on a site for defamation so I assume you want to know if you are being defamed, among other things.
Posting a video of you horsing around does not even come close to meeting the definition of defamation.
I don't know the laws in New York regarding posting such videos without permission so I won't attempt to address the question of whether the law will allow you to force him to take it down.
I do, however, know employment law.
First, your boss is not required by law to fire him. He can if he chooses; he need not if he chooses not to. You CANNOT force him to. The law does not give you the right to dictate to your boss what discipline he hands out.
If he chooses to do so, he does not need a witness. The number of people who need to get involved equals the number of people your boss wants to have involved. I have no way of knowing if you WILL get fired; there will be nothing illlegal if you ARE fired. You certainly CAN be fired for horsing around at work, even if it was only 20 seconds. Frankly, if I were the other employee and I got fired and you didn't, I'd be making a lot of noise about it. As an HR manager, I personally would opt for either firing both of you, or firing neither of you.* The fact that he posted the video does not change the fact that as far as WORK issues are concerned, you are both equally guilty. If your offense was not severe enough to warrant firing, neither was his. The posting of the video is not a work related issue and your boss has NO obligation to take any notice of it whatsoever. It is not illegal if he does; he is by no stretch of the imagination required to.
If there are additional facts that you believe would change this response, by all means post them.
*Based solely on what you have posted here, I don't believe that firing either of you would be warranted; I'd be more inclined to figuratively slap both your wrists and send you back to work.
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