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    Thumbs up Minor In Love With Adult, Fifteen Years Older, And Mother Objects

    Im 15 years old will be 16 in 6 months. i'll have a job by then im looking for one now. I live in North Carolina. Im in love with a man whos a lot older than me && my mom threatens to get him put in prison. we love eachother. he has a job && a place to stayy. && i may be pregnant. if i am it will make this whole process a lot easier. i want to move in with him && get married. but im afraid if my mom knows this she'll get him locked up. && i dont want that. me && my mom dont get along && i dont know my dad. i live with my mom && grandma && my little sister && she loves my boyfriend to death he'd do anything for any of us. even my mom but she doesnt like him at all. just because hes so much older than me. i dotn go to school right now. bu ti promised my boyfriend that id go back to school for him && my mom doesnt understand that if shed let me be with him id be much happier && i do the right thing. im so hurt right now. emotionally. && i was wondering if in north carolina there is a cost to be emacipated. my boyfriend will pay it i just need to kno how much. if anyone could help me it would be greatly appreciated. what do i do. id be much happier with the love of my life.

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    Default Re: im in love with some who is 15 years older than me & my moms not happy.north caro

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    Im 15 years old will be 16 in 6 months. i'll have a job by then im looking for one now. I live in North Carolina. Im in love with a man whos a lot older than me && my mom threatens to get him put in prison. we love eachother. he has a job && a place to stayy. && i may be pregnant. if i am it will make this whole process a lot easier. i want to move in with him && get married. but im afraid if my mom knows this she'll get him locked up. && i dont want that. me && my mom dont get along && i dont know my dad. i live with my mom && grandma && my little sister && she loves my boyfriend to death he'd do anything for any of us. even my mom but she doesnt like him at all. just because hes so much older than me. i dotn go to school right now. bu ti promised my boyfriend that id go back to school for him && my mom doesnt understand that if shed let me be with him id be much happier && i do the right thing. im so hurt right now. emotionally. && i was wondering if in north carolina there is a cost to be emacipated. my boyfriend will pay it i just need to kno how much. if anyone could help me it would be greatly appreciated. what do i do. id be much happier with the love of my life.
    You haven't stated anything that would indicate that you even qualify for emancipation.

    If you are pregnant, this would not make the process easier. Also, if you are pregnant this would be evidence that a crime has been committed.

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    Default Re: im in love with some who is 15 years older than me & my moms not happy.north caro

    ok thanks for being so helpful. like your making anything better for me.
    i just asked if there was a fee to pay okayy.

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    Default Re: im in love with some who is 15 years older than me & my moms not happy.north caro

    Quote Quoting lostinthismoment00
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    ok thanks for being so helpful. like your making anything better for me.
    i just asked if there was a fee to pay okayy.
    Yes, there are fees....

    However, don't waste your money, as you do not qualify.

    Boyfriend needs to save his money for a lawyer if criminal charges are filed.

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    Default Re: im in love with some who is 15 years older than me & my moms not happy.north caro

    North Carolina Emancipation Law provides:
    Quote Quoting North Carolina Statutes, Chapter 7B, Sub-chapter 4, Article 35 - Emancipation
    § 7B-3500. Who may petition.

    Any juvenile who is 16 years of age or older and who has resided in the same county in North Carolina or on federal territory within the boundaries of North Carolina for six months next preceding the filing of the petition may petition the court in that county for a judicial decree of emancipation.

    § 7B-3501. Petition.

    The petition shall be signed and verified by the petitioner and shall contain the following information:
    (1) The full name of the petitioner and the petitioner's birth date, and state and county of birth;

    (2) A certified copy of the petitioner's birth certificate;

    (3) The name and last known address of the parent, guardian, or custodian;

    (4) The petitioner's address and length of residence at that address;

    (5) The petitioner's reasons for requesting emancipation; and

    (6) The petitioner's plan for meeting the petitioner's needs and living expenses which plan may include a statement of employment and wages earned that is verified by the petitioner's employer.
    § 7B-3502. Summons.

    A copy of the filed petition along with a summons shall be served upon the petitioner's parent, guardian, or custodian who shall be named as respondents. The summons shall include the time and place of the hearing and shall notify the respondents to file written answer within 30 days after service of the summons and petition. In the event that personal service cannot be obtained, service shall be in accordance with G.S. 1A-1, Rule 4(j).

    § 7B-3503. Hearing.

    The court, sitting without a jury, shall permit all parties to present evidence and to cross‑examine witnesses. The petitioner has the burden of showing by a preponderance of the evidence that emancipation is in the petitioner's best interests. Upon finding that reasonable cause exists, the court may order the juvenile to be examined by a psychiatrist, a licensed clinical psychologist, a physician, or any other expert to evaluate the juvenile's mental or physical condition. The court may continue the hearing and order investigation by a juvenile court counselor or by the county department of social services to substantiate allegations of the petitioner or respondents.

    No husband-wife or physician-patient privilege shall be grounds for excluding any evidence in the hearing.

    § 7B-3504. Considerations for emancipation.

    In determining the best interests of the petitioner and the need for emancipation, the court shall review the following considerations:
    (1) The parental need for the earnings of the petitioner;

    (2) The petitioner's ability to function as an adult;

    (3) The petitioner's need to contract as an adult or to marry;

    (4) The employment status of the petitioner and the stability of the petitioner's living arrangements;

    (5) The extent of family discord which may threaten reconciliation of the petitioner with the petitioner's family;

    (6) The petitioner's rejection of parental supervision or support; and

    (7) The quality of parental supervision or support.

    § 7B-3505. Final decree of emancipation.
    After reviewing the considerations for emancipation, the court may enter a decree of emancipation if the court determines:
    (1) That all parties are properly before the court or were duly served and failed to appear and that time for filing an answer has expired;

    (2) That the petitioner has shown a proper and lawful plan for adequately providing for the petitioner's needs and living expenses;

    (3) That the petitioner is knowingly seeking emancipation and fully understands the ramifications of the act; and

    (4) That emancipation is in the best interests of the petitioner.
    The decree shall set out the court's findings.

    If the court determines that the criteria in subdivisions (1) through (4) are not met, the court shall order the proceeding dismissed.

    § 7B-3506. Costs of court.

    The court may tax the costs of the proceeding to any party or may, for good cause, order the costs remitted.

    The clerk may collect costs for furnishing to the petitioner a certificate of emancipation which shall recite the name of the petitioner and the fact of the petitioner's emancipation by court decree and shall have the seal of the clerk affixed thereon.

    § 7B-3507. Legal effect of final decree.

    As of entry of the final decree of emancipation:
    (1) The petitioner has the same right to make contracts and conveyances, to sue and to be sued, and to transact business as if the petitioner were an adult.

    (2) The parent, guardian, or custodian is relieved of all legal duties and obligations owed to the petitioner and is divested of all rights with respect to the petitioner.

    (3) The decree is irrevocable.
    Notwithstanding any other provision of this section, a decree of emancipation shall not alter the application of G.S. 14-326.1 or the petitioner's right to inherit property by intestate succession.

    § 7B-3508. Appeals.

    Any petitioner, parent, guardian, or custodian who is a party to a proceeding under this Article may appeal from any order of disposition to the Court of Appeals provided that notice of appeal is given in open court at the time of the hearing or in writing within 10 days after entry of the order. Entry of an order shall be treated in the same manner as entry of a judgment under G.S. 1A-1, Rule 58 of the North Carolina Rules of Civil Procedure. Pending disposition of an appeal, the court may enter a temporary order affecting the custody or placement of the petitioner as the court finds to be in the best interests of the petitioner or the State.

    § 7B-3509. Application of common law.

    A married juvenile is emancipated by this Article. All other common-law provisions for emancipation are superseded by this Article.
    Even when you're sixteen, the court will almost certainly say "no" if somebody merely brings up that your primary purpose is to live with your 30+-year-old boyfriend.

    If you contact your county court, they can inform you of the filing fee.

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    Default Re: im in love with some who is 15 years older than me & my moms not happy.north caro

    Quote Quoting lostinthismoment00
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    Im 15 years old will be 16 in 6 months. i'll have a job by then im looking for one now. I live in North Carolina. Im in love with a man whos a lot older than me && my mom threatens to get him put in prison. we love eachother. he has a job && a place to stayy. && i may be pregnant. if i am it will make this whole process a lot easier. i want to move in with him && get married. but im afraid if my mom knows this she'll get him locked up. && i dont want that. me && my mom dont get along && i dont know my dad. i live with my mom && grandma && my little sister && she loves my boyfriend to death he'd do anything for any of us. even my mom but she doesnt like him at all. just because hes so much older than me. i dotn go to school right now. bu ti promised my boyfriend that id go back to school for him && my mom doesnt understand that if shed let me be with him id be much happier && i do the right thing. im so hurt right now. emotionally. && i was wondering if in north carolina there is a cost to be emacipated. my boyfriend will pay it i just need to kno how much. if anyone could help me it would be greatly appreciated. what do i do. id be much happier with the love of my life.
    The "love of your life" is a felon. If you are pregnant, once the baby is born a DNA test will prove that this pervert is guilty and he will be off to prison.
    Keep this waste of air away from your little sister before he molests her too!

    Your Mother is absolutely correct to keep this creep away from you and your little sister.

    North Carolina

    § 14-27. 2 et seq.
    First-degree rape is sexual intercourse with a victim under age 13 when the actor is at least age 12 and at least four years older.

    Statutory rape or sexual offense of person age 13, 14, or 15 is intercourse with someone age 13, 14, or 15 when the actor is (1) at least six years older and (2) between four and six years older.

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