Lack Of Communication

[chessy1]

My ex boyfriend with whom I have a 19 month old doesnt no speak to me at all in regards to visitation or anyting relating to our child. visitation has not been court ordered or anything else for that matter. (yet) what can I do to suggest some kind of communication with me in regards to our child. I am aafraid that later on we cannot make decisions together in regards to our son or discuss any issues when my child goes visits with him or that he will not answer my calls (which he has been commenting to other people) when overnite begins. He also doesnt wish to in the meantime visit our child at my residence in order to build some kind of bond with our son.... Parenting classes. Ive tried suggesting therapeutic session and he declined that too. please advise...thanks

[Mr. Knowitall]

Consider formalizing your visitation schedule, and what contact must be allowed during visitation, through a court order.