I have been at war with my 8 year olds father for, well, 8 years. I haev been remarried for 6. I live in Florida and my ex lives in NC. (All cases are in Florida)
My husband wants to adopt my child, but my ex will not signover his rights because " I want him to". He only see's this child maybe once a year, and only pays child support because he has a state job and we have court ordered garisments on him.
How old does my child have to be before he can go to a judge and say "this is whatI want"? Will he ever be old enough to out weigh what his "father" wants?