My son is just over a year old. His biological father refused to admit that he could even BE the father, and never had anything to do with me, at all, after I told him I was pregnant.
I did write him a letter and send a picture to let him know his son had been born. I recieved no response.
I don't really know where he is, although I think I could locate him if I tried. I have never tried. I never tried to drag him to court to establish paternity or get child support. The line for "father" is blank on the birth certificate.
I have met a wonderful man who lives in England. He said that he'd like to adopt my son.
I rather suspect that biodad would make things difficult, simply out of spite. I mean, if I give him the opportunity to make things difficult for me, I think he would...
Is it possible to do this without consulting the biodad?
What would be the legal implications of fiance signing the birth certificate as father?