DNA evidence

**allboyd** · 08-03-2005, 04:48 PM

I met someone in a club, I left with that person...when went to his house and decide to have sex....i change my mind so we didn't have sexual intercouse, but instead, enjecated on my stomach. I became upset and went to the police station....Was that the right thing to do. Now i have ruined this person life in the community and with family...Can i change my mind about pressing charges. I did agree he could do it on my stomach. I just was mad, because he told me he was married.

**GreatGadsby** · 08-04-2005, 04:03 AM

what did you tell the police when you went in? what did you allege happened?

**allboyd** · 08-05-2005, 06:53 AM

i told the police he force me to have sex and i didn't know this guy, but the truth is i did know him and i agreed to have sex. now this guy is in jail and i want to tell the truth. i was mad at the time, but can i do.

**allboyd** · 08-05-2005, 12:07 PM

I TOLD POLICE I DIDN'T GIVE HIM PERMISSION AND THEY CHARGE HIM WITH SEXAUL ASSAULT...HOW CAN I TELL THE TRUTH THAT I AGREED..DO I NEED TO WAIT UNTIL HIS COURT HEARING.

**aaron** · 08-05-2005, 12:42 PM

You told the police he committed a felony. They don't need your permission to proceed to charge him on the basis of your claim.

**allboyd** · 08-05-2005, 01:14 PM

How can they charge him if i agreed to have sex and he could conduct a sex act on me. I told them i didn't agreed. My question is should i tell the police the truth or at this point would they believe me. I don't want to send a guy to jail who didn't do anything to me that i wasn't in agreement. help me

**aaron** · 08-05-2005, 01:19 PM

Quoting allboyd

How can they charge him if i agreed to have sex and he could conduct a sex act on me.

They have charged him because you lied to them.

You should probably consult a criminal defense lawyer, in relation to how to extricate yourself and your victim from this situation with the least amount of damage to either of you.

**nnyw** · 01-31-2006, 11:33 PM

how old are you? what you have done is caused un due grief for this man and his family cause you "were mad"! Take accountability for your actions!

**Jesort415** · 02-07-2006, 04:14 PM

coming from a real sexual assualt victim you should be ashamed of yourself!!! because u were mad u ruined a guys life? u think thats right? how would u feel/react if someone implicated u in a crime u didn't commit? girls like u make it hard for real victims to come forward cause they're worried people wont believe them. tell the truth and take wat ever comes ur way like a "women".