My ex and I just signed the final divorce agreement. Not even a week ago. Now he is harrassing me to have sex with him or he will take me back to court and try to get the kids from me again. The divorce started from physical abuse and I have a free lawyer for the divorce. He knows that once the paperwork is completed I will not have a lawyer. He makes 94k a year. I make 12k. I wont be able to afford one at that point. He's betting on this.
So even now after the paperwork was signed (not even 3 days ago) he is threatening to take me back to court to get the kids from me.
We have been split up since February officially. The relationship during our marriage was strange and could be considered Master/slave to some. (against my will but for the safety of the kids until I could get out of the situation). I got pregnant in the middle of March and he knew it when he signed the divorce. The baby isnt his. Even stated he knew it in front of my lawyer and said he didnt care. Now he is saying that was adultry even though we were split up. I have him on tape having sex with a female during our marriage. He knows this as well.
Can he do what he is saying? I have moved on in life and dont want him controlling me any longer. I just now am having the strength to put my foot down about all of this and now he is trying to crush it. He is trying to make me send him pictures nude of me as well. I dont want him in my life any longer but have to for the kids sake. They are 2 and 4 years old. They know of him but he never helped me take care of them. He was gone 15 month of their lives. Now because I am stepping up against him he wants to try and controll me in another way. How can I legally get away from all of this and still keep my kids? HELP!!!!!!!