2. If I at least make an honest effort to make some amount of payment each month will they see that as good faith money and stop harassing me?
As long as you do owe the money, the lending sector, or any assigned third-party recovery agent will continue to communicate with you. This is to ensure that all urgency is being conveyed to you in order to achieve maximum and timely recovery.
If you are being harassed, that is against the law. You should report this to the Ministry in your province. You can find your provincial ministry information here:
http://www.cfwgroup.ca/content/view/32/76/
There are ways to deal with these types of problems. Bankruptcy, in most cases, is a forgone conclusion to common debt problems. Most people go bankrupt because they know of no other way. That is yet another problem that has grown out of control.
Best of luck and I hope things work out for you.
Johnny