When I was 22 (and much stupider), about four years ago, I had sex with a 14 year old girl in California. The next day, my boss (I was in the military) was getting phone calls from about it from an investigating officer. For some reason, the military never did an investigation.
The girl kept trying to contact me and I didn't want anything to do with her. Then, I got a phone call from her mother and she was absolutely ape shit, saying about how I raped her daughter and how I was being looked for by the california authorities and the military police. I apologized profusely but she would have nothing of it. Her father called me, acting like the "good cop" and trying to coax information out of me (if my hunches are correct). He and the girl's mother kept calling me so much I had to change my number.
Since then, I've enrolled in college, I'm getting my degree in May, I have a son, and I'm getting married soon. I have a completely different outlook on life and am a completely different person than I was a short four years ago. I would never again have sex with anyone 17, let alone 14.
I know I was a moron and I deserved to burn but I want to know what I have left to be worried about. I've read a LOT but I seem to be getting conflicting information on statutes of limitations, how long to prosecute, whether the time is tolled until she's 18, etc. Any help from someone that has experience from the military side would be great, also.