Obligation on personal belongings

[wmlecamus]

We live in texas Too many problems to document. She has been a nighmare from bad grades to being in jail to drugs. She has finally gotten on the right path, good grades, job, etc. She went home for Christmas and decided to stay live with her mother in Indiana. She now wants us to pack up all her belongings and send them to her. What is our obligation? Are we required to send it? Can we sell it?

[aaron]

This is your daughter?

[wmlecamus]

My step - his daughter

[Mr. Knowitall]

No, you don't have to send them. If they're hers, you don't have the right to sell them. If you really want her stuff out of the house, what's the big deal about sending her belongings to her?

[wmlecamus]

The big deal in sending them is that she has abused the relationship time and time again. jerking everyone around and having things her way. She feels the world should stop for her and everyone do her bidding. She is 18 now, she should understand there are consequences for crapping all over everyone.

[Mr. Knowitall]

Have you considered trying Alanon?