I have got to divorce this man. We have been married toooooooo long and it has just been more seperation than together. He is and has been in another state for the past 11 years and have no clue as to exactly where. We have 2 children 18 and 11 to which he outright refuses to pay child support for. It is awful and I need to be legally disconnected from that man so I can move on. Please help.