State is KS. My ex wife moved out of state with our two kids 5 months ago. I admit that I wasn't around like I should have been. I missed out on a huge part of their lives and no ones to blame but me. Now I realize I screwed up. We did go to court and I gave the ok for her to go but now I changed my mind. How can I make her move back? I only get to talk to the kids once a week and now they aren't coming home for Christmas so now I won't get to see them and I can't afford to go down there. I feel like she's doing it on purpose. She says I upset the kids and I admit I do yell but she makes me mad when she hangs up on me. And then I get madder. Shouldn't I be able to file and get custody based on the fact that she keeps the children from contacting me? It's not fair. They are my kids too. She won't tell me how she's supporting herself or nothing. I think I should know because its my kids and I'm worried about them.