I’m really not sure where to post this issue but I hope I can receive an answer here. I’m extremely worried over something that has been bothering me for some time now.
I met this guy online some years ago (I was only 16 and he was 40 although at the time he told me he was 25). Anyway, we formed a great friendship until we started feeling more for each other, we fell in love, and I thought he was the greatest guy in the world. He was so nice, wonderful, he was the perfect guy and that’s why I didn’t really care about his age. Well, time passed, we were doing great, until he convinced me to do things in the webcam which I now regret so bad. At the time I did it because I loved him, I never in my life believed he would record me. Some time later we “broke up” and ended things in good terms. However, his new girlfriend found out about me and she started writing to me, threatening me that if I didn’t stop talking to her boyfriend she would do something to me (and I never did talk to him but she was extremely jealous).
I didn’t believe she could do anything but I still wasn’t going to let someone talk bad to me, so I insulted her back, then her boyfriend got in the way and things got pretty ugly. Now she’s saying they both have videos of me and she is always threatening me that my family will find out soon what I did in the webcam (you guys might imagine what). I got really scared, since that was a long time ago and now I really regret it, so I tried to convince her to let it go, she said if I don’t do what she says she ‘will act’. She’s very jealous with her boyfriend and she says she has to have me controlled or else I will ‘ receive a surprise and my family also’. My question is, if somebody recorded me on webcam without my consent, and put those videos online or sent them to anyone, is that considered a crime? I’m very scared because she has me at the tip of her hand and if somebody else saw those videos I would die. I forgot to mention, I committed the error of giving him my house address, my telephone and cell phone numbers in the past (i trusted him a lot) and now his girlfriend has this information of mine too, so that's why im extremely scared. I also have his address and telephone number , the thing is he lives in Spain so I don't know what kind of laws apply there and what I can do. Thanks in advance for any comments/advice.