My question involves a child custody case from the State of: virginia
Im asking this for my daughter who lives with us .
my daughter and boyfriend had a child together .. his mother and father seemed like everyday down to earth people(aside from the alchohalism) , they own a family business , own a home
Until my daughter discovered that the Boys Mother and Father smoke crack and she found out that on occasion he has smoked it with his father aswell ....and he smokes large amount of marijuana , he is an alchoholic and was issued a DUI at 18 and almost killed 2 girls . Once my daughter found out about the drugs she broke down and told my wife and i everything and we are behind her %110 .
she has filed for FULL custody and she filed for child support aswell.
Here is our issue, the court date for the is 11/20/12 but she is suppose to attend mediation friday , The most we are willing to budge is letting them have visitation at a supervised location at there expense .
now if she has to explain why in mediation this gives him almost a month to drink water ....take whatever masking meds are available and pee clean once my daughter brings this up in court and ofcourse resume the drinking and driving , drugs ect right after court.....just like he did lastime
Can my daughter go into mediation and say "were going to court" this is non-negatiable" and when asked why say "thats just what i want"
I dont mean to be a Jerk ....a DUI , a girl with a broken back and another one almost dying while drunk driving didnt change him......The birth of the most beautiful thing i have ever laid eyes on didnt change him.....i really dont think a 4th chance is in order